General Information

    •    What, Like Two Girlfriends?

    •    Polyamory - What it is and what it isn't

    •    The Varieties of Intimate Relationship

    •    Responsible Polyamory

    •    alt.polyamory home page

    •    Frequently Asked Questions

    •    How to F*** Up a Poly Relationship

    •    Never Do This: Poly Mistakes

    •    The Key Factor to Polyamory Relationship Success

    •    A Brief History of Polyamory

    •    Humorous Look at the Different Flavors of Nonmonogamy

    •    Support group for POLY partners in poly-mono pairings

    •    Support group for MONOGAMOUS partners in poly-mono pairings

Jealousy

    •    Navigating Jealousy

    •    Some Reasons Why We Feel Jealous

    •    Some Tools for Dealing with Your Jealousy

    •    How NOT to Deal with Jealousy

    •    Making Peace with Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships (1.2 M Download)

Agreements in Poly Relationships

    •    Creating Empowering Relationship Agreements

    •    Additional Relationship and Safer Sex Agreements Information

    •    A Secondary's Bill of Rights

Other Poly Resources

    •    Love Languages

    •    Shades of Poly

    •    The Spectrum from No to Yes

    •    Relationship Style Preferences

    •    Opening a Monogamous Relationship (30 K Download)

Books

    •    Polyamory Communication Survival Kit by Robert McGarey

    •    Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits by Deborah M. Anapol

    •    Love in Abundance: A Counselor's Advice on Open Relationships, by Kathy Labriola.

    •    Five Languages of Love by Gary Chapman

    •    The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt, Greenery Press 1997

    •    Lesbian Polyfidelity by Celeste West

Workshops and Services

    •    Personal Growth Sessions

    •    Kathy Labriola, an excellent counselor in the San Francisco area

    •    Self-Esteem

    •    How to be Assertive and Loving Too

Conferences and Magazines

    •    Loving More web site

Online Discussions

    •    The Usenet newsgroup alt.polyamory.

    •    If you're familiar with IRC, there's a polyamory channel there.

    •    There are also quite a few poly communities on the Livejournal blog system (one main one called Polyamory and several spin-offs, like Polymarriage, Mono-Poly and Poly_BDSM).

    •    There are also forums on a few poly-specific sites:

            ◦    http://www.polymatchmaker.com

            ◦    http://www.polyamoryonline.org/smf/

            ◦    http://www.polyamorychat.com/